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Moving Beyond Hashtags: What To Do Now That #Blacklivesmatter Is No Longer Trending on Social Media?

A Guest Blog Post from Christina Malecka, MA LMHC, founder of Unplug. Reconnect. Restore: Digital Mindfulness Retreats:

Hello.  Take a breath.  How are you?  

If you are like me, you have spent a LOT of time on your screens over the past month. This global pandemic still has us spinning and we are in the midst of a transformative cultural uprising led by Black Lives Matter.

We can’t look away, nor should we. But it’s also time for some respite from the constant flow of information, and to step away from our screens to integrate new information.  

As someone passionate about tech-life balance and off-screen wellbeing,  I have a love/hate relationship with social media.  

Over the the past month I have been immensely grateful to brilliant Black women like Nicole PearsonSonya Renee Taylor, and Ijeoma Oluo. They have challenged me to more deeply interrogate systemic racism, and my responsibility to dismantle it.  

There is no denying that social media has been a major catalyst for the Black Lives Matter movement, and for that I am deeply grateful.  
 
At the same time, I am skeptical about the powerful corporate interests working tirelessly to keep us addicted to their products, and the racism, sexism and other biases imbedded in digital platforms.  Platforms that are overwhelmingly created and maintained by White men.  (To learn more about this, I urge you to read Safiya Umoja Noble’s book Algorithms of Oppression.)  Can social media really be a foundational tool for systemic liberation in the long-term?  I have my doubts. 

The very nature of social media is that topics “trend” and then fade over time.  What will we do now that Black Lives Matter is no longer front and center on social media?  

I will be continuing to follow Black leaders, activists and thinkers to stay engaged for the long term. The brilliant Ijeoma Oluo warns us to “be wary of things that are purely symbolic and anything that allows you to do something that isn’t actually felt by people of color.

She says: “I always ask myself when I’m trying to do solidarity work, can the people I’m in solidarity with actually feel this? Can they spend this? Can they eat this? Does this actually help them in any way? And if it doesn’t, let it go.”

One of the dangers of social media is that our actions on it are often purely symbolic.

I am not saying that agents of oppression should not demonstrate accountability to, and solidarity with targets of oppression on social media.  But it can’t stop there. We must make a regular commitment to inquiry and action, even after Instagram stops reminding us to do so. But I’m preaching to the choir here.  We’re part of a Collective that leads with accountability to BIPOC communities and I see you out there doing the work.  

We are also allowed to rest.  

I’ve been thinking a lot about humility and the freedom that comes with it:  pausing, listening, reading and learning. What a relief to not have to cling to the White habit of striving for “expert” status.

We know that dismantling institutional racism is a marathon, not a sprint.  It needs to be integrated into our lives along with our work, relationships, hobbies, leisure and spiritual practices.  I love this incredible google doc compiled by Bryanna Wallace and Autumn Gupta that offers daily actions to support the Black Lives Matter movement while maintaining physical distancing in the time of COVID-19.  Whether you have 10, 25 or 10 minutes a day, this resource will help us maintain momentum when BLM is no longer in the fickle social media and news cycle.  

Are you craving a reminder of what it feels like to have more spaciousness to reflect on what you’d rather be doing with the 4 hours a day you scroll social media?  (Hey, we all do it…even me!).  How do we make the most of our off-line time in the age of socializing from a distance?  I have an idea….

Screen Time Lifeline! A Rescue from Smartphone Fixation in a Time of Uncertainty

Starting on July 5, I am offering a 5-week I am guided mutual support experience called Screen Time Lifeline to support you to find tech-life balance – not by rejecting technology – but by embracing evidence-based practices designed to help you make the most of your offline hours, calm your nervous system and buoy your emotional health.  Something we could all use right now. 

This will be my second cohort of Screen Time Lifeline.  After leading magical in-person Digital Mindfulness retreats at The Whidbey Institute pre-COVID, I was skeptical about building community on Zoom.  But with only 6 people and plenty of space for everyone to participate, we co-created something truly special.  Most importantly, when participants logged off after our Sunday gatherings, they were all able to use the tools and support I shared, to become more mindful about their relationships with technology, and to find balance.  

I’m not here to guilt or shame you; I’m here to throw a party to celebrate your humanity, presence, and capacity to connect with others!

We’ll be meeting on Sunday evenings from 4 – 5:30pm PT between July 5 and August 2, and together we will:

  • Create community to support you to set intentions and goals to stay electronically connected on your own terms.
  • Set you up for success to enjoy a screen-free Sunday evening after our online gathering
  • Learn how mindfulness is the opposite of distraction – and the key to a healthier relationship with technology.
  • Meditate, ground, move, laugh and learn
  • Empower you to rediscover your passions, values and priorities. Because why would you spend less time on your phone if you’re unclear about what to do?

Fun fact: Hannah encouraged me to start this group and was a participant in the first cohort.  Here’s what she had to say: 

“I always love working with Christina, but our group dynamics were really special too. I felt like our group was especially thoughtful and empathetic due to the number of therapists and people within the wellness industry. The biggest take-away and change by far has been creating a conscious relationship with my technology. When I choose to binge out on it, it’s a conscious choice to absorb info, zone out, or connect with others. Christina has an innate ability to read the room and create containers for real change to happen, which makes every experience feel uniquely tailored to the needs of each individual and the group as a whole.”

Three Moon Collective members and fans: you are my ideal audience for Screen Time Lifeline, so I’m offering you a 10% discount off the $200 registration fee if you use the code THREEMOON at check-out.  

Let’s unplug, build community,  and rest for a while. Join me!

How to Build Your Spiritual Wellness Team

How to build a spiritual wellness team — another thing no one teaches us in school (!)

We grow up going to whoever our parents selected for us. But once we get into adulthood, we’re the ones responsible for finding our primary care doctor, choosing a therapist, and picking a gyno or whatever kind of specialist we need to see.

And that’s just concerning our physical and mental needs. Oftentimes in our culture, the needs of our spirit are never even considered.

This leaves us ill-prepared to find someone who practices energy work, reads natal charts, or communicates with spirits. And it makes us wary, especially if we’re not even sure why we might want to work with someone who offers those services in the first place.

As someone who is 1. frugal and 2. skeptical, I also wondered why these providers and these services might benefit someone like me. It’s hard to grasp paying $120+ for a Reiki session when you’re not even sure what it is.

So how do you go about finding a provider to work with? How do you even know which modality to choose?? I’ve put together a few ideas for you below (based on my own experiences of trial and error!):

Assess Your Needs.

I know, I know. We all want someone to just tell us what we need and where to find it (at least I do!). But the secret to finding the practice or provider that’s right for you, is by figuring out what you’re even looking for from the start.

In my last blog post I talked about an exercise called the Life Pie which I definitely recommend here, but I’d also recommend doing some journaling with the following prompts:

  • List all the questions you need answered. Trying to figure out your life’s purpose? Unsure if you should move? Wondering whether your side gig could become your main gig? Write down all your questions, big and small to identify the most pressing ones.
  • Next, list the areas of your life where you do feel supported, and the areas in which you could use a little more help. Maybe you have a great mentor who provides career advice, but you have no idea how to tap into your intuition. Or maybe you see a therapist who supports your mental health, but you’re still struggling to figure out your greater purpose. See what themes arise.
  • Finally, match the themes with the questions (chances are they will be very similar to each other) and then organize them by how urgent they feel. For example, my big questions were around my life’s purpose, and if a higher power actually exists (?!). No surprise that I was feeling very unsupported when it came to spiritual needs.

By knowing the questions that are knocking around in your head and the areas of your life that are feeling less than fulfilled, you begin to identify where you would actually like to find some support… And not fall victim to someone’s persuasive marketing copy that promises to fix every single problem you never knew you had.

Do Your Research.

Okay so you’ve identified your questions and the areas of your life you’d like to nurture. But there’s SO much out there, how do we even begin to find what might work for us?

One thing I want to make clear here is that wellness, and especially spiritual wellness is VERY subjective. What works for someone else may make you want to run the other way. So if you give something or someone a try and it doesn’t resonate with you, that is wonderful. You’ve gained very important information about yourself that will help you make future decisions, and you can always give it another go or never pick it up again, it’s completely up to you.

Alright back to the research. So I’m a little biased here because I created Three Moon Collective and our community membership to help with this exact problem (be the first to learn about it here), but I also recognize that we will not vibe with everyone, so I’m committed to offering you a range of options so you can find what works best for you.

For Finding Practices:

  1. Holisticism. One of my all-time favorite wellness resources & digital communities. Michelle, the founder, is one of my teachers and writes about all the different facets of wellness in a way that feels like it’s coming straight from an in-the-know BFF who wants to share all her secrets with you. She also has over 50+ FREE virtual wellness workshops hosted on their website right now, so it’s the perfect way to dive in and see what catches your eye.
  2. Head + Heart. A mindful calendar with a virtual wellness guide that includes their tried and tested picks. The founder Monica is a friend and collaborator of mine who always has the pulse on what’s going on in the wellness industry as well as super solid recommendations.
  3. Goop. It kind of pains me to recommend this, but I can’t deny the impact they’ve had on bringing fringe wellness practices to the mainstream. It’s also a very aesthetically pleasing site to explore, so feel free to click around… Just remember that you don’t need to buy any of their products to be “well.”

For Finding Providers:

  1. Kindred Medicine. A truly beautiful directory for BIPOC, this resource defines itself as a movement of healers & people of color, remembering and healing boldly in community and from the roots. Browse the directory, listen to the podcast, and see what might be awakened within.
  2. Three Moon Collective. I had to add us in here! We’ve assembled a trusted team of heart-centered providers over the past 2 years who I personally stand behind and recommend.
  3. Om Mama Co. A partner of ours who also has a wide range of providers hosted on their site. They specialize in supporting mamas, but almost anyone could benefit from the services offered.

Dip Your Toes In.

Now you might have an idea of the practices or people you’d like to explore working with. I’d recommend writing them all down in your journal (you could even get real nerdy and create a google sheet), so you have a starting point to track from.

Pick a practice that feels like it could serve your most pressing need. Let’s say it’s Reiki because you want to cultivate your connection to your spiritual team, and from your research, it’s the practice you’re the most excited about. Maybe you’ve also identified a few Reiki providers who seem like your kind of people. Here’s what I would do next:

  • Start following these providers on Instagram and browse their websites. See if they have any blog posts or free content where you can get a deeper understanding of who they are and how they practice.
  • Tune into their IG lives or attend one of their workshops. This will give you a pretty clear idea if the provider is for you or not, and you’ll get to benefit from hearing their knowledge either way.
  • Reach out to them and ask questions! Most providers are so excited to share the practices they are passionate about and love being able to connect with curious people. As long as you aren’t asking them how you should solve your problems for free, this is another great way to create connection.
  • If they offer mini-sessions, take them up on it. This is an easy way to try on working with someone at a lower cost and time commitment.

spiritual wellness is personal

Be an Empowered Client.

So you’ve finally landed on someone to work with, congratulations!!!!

Now the question is, how do we prepare? I think it’s always a good idea to enter a session with a very open mind and little to no expectations. Especially if we’re new to a practice.

Journaling before your session or taking time to set an intention of what you would like to work on or receive can be helpful prep too. Accompanied by the understanding that the outcome of the session might not always be what we want, but instead what we need.

For example, the first time I tried breathwork I did NOT like it. I knew it was intense and I was going to have feelings, but I was caught off guard by my emotional response and didn’t totally connect with the facilitator.

I ended up feeling worse after doing it and swore it off… Until my therapist pointed out to me that it had caused a major mindset shift (that I would have never realized without his reflection).

Recently, I gave it another go with facilitator Brittany Wilson, and I’ve not only found a new healing practice, but a teacher I will return to over and over again.

The moral of the story? Approach it all with an open mind, but if something or someone ever makes you feel bad, unworthy, or broken, you have permission to draw your boundaries and walk away.

Reflect, and then Spread the Word.

After your first session, I again recommend journaling. It’s very cool to look back at the thoughts I had or the messages I received from my sessions that ended up resurfacing in my life later on. Here are a few quick prompts:

  • Describe the overall experience, from beginning to end.
  • What messages did you receive from the provider or your spiritual team?
  • How did you feel after the session?
  • Is it something you would want to do again? How often?

Everyone is different when it comes to frequency. It could be quarterly, monthly, or whenever you feel like you need a tune-up or extra guidance. I used to be very sporadic when it came to booking sessions, but I now prefer consistency so I can work on things over time and be able to track my “progress” (which is never linear).

Finally, if you loved your session and the provider you worked with, spread the word! Post about it on social media and tag them. Share your experience in the group chat. Write a glowing testimonial and post it to Google, their Facebook page, Yelp, or send it to them so they can use it on their website or social media.

Everyone is an “influencer” these days and your recommendations matter. Plus, you just went through a lengthy process to find someone amazing, so make it easier for the rest of us and shout it from the rooftops!

So there you have it, my guide to building your spiritual wellness team!

Lucky for you, my personal faves are featured on our Collective page as well as in our downloadable virtual wellness guide. Know someone amazing to recommend to us? Still have questions about how or where you should start? Send an email to hello@threemooncollective and I will personally follow up with you!

How to Create Community (When You Feel Like You Don’t Belong)

Growing up, I never quite felt like I “belonged.” This is partly a personal problem (hello therapy!), but it was also the result of being in spaces and around people who had very different priorities and interests from my own.

It wasn’t until I became an adult and felt like I could choose who and what I surrounded myself with that I came to understand the concept of community… and that I most definitely did not have one.

Joining a hot yoga studio was my first introduction to having a “community,” and for a while it was enough to sweat with the same strangers and be on a first-name basis with the teachers. I even became a teacher myself to dive deeper into this practice that was changing my life and feel like I belonged to this world.

Unfortunately this studio’s definition of community was money-motivated, and the more we were pushed to encourage our students to join our ranks (and fork over cash), the more I found myself becoming disenchanted with what I had thought we were building.

So I tried other studios, began going to workshops, started to meet new like-minded people, and… still felt like I was grasping for something out of reach. Something that I had yet to earn my place in.

This feeling led me to create a community of my own. A place where intimacy and connection reign supreme, prerequisite knowledge isn’t required, and you immediately feel seen for who you are and what you bring to the table (which is a lot, I might add).

But I didn’t jettison all my college friends or completely reinvent myself to do so, and I wanted to share with you a few of the ways I created the community I’d been dreaming of and continue to cultivate it:

1. Get clear on what you already have, and what you’re missing.

There is a really simple way to do this using an exercise called “Life Pie” from The Artist’s Way. In the exercise you draw a circle, divide it into 6 pieces of pie and label each piece with the following titles: spirituality, exercise, play, work, friends, romance/adventure. Then, place a dot in each slice at the degree to which you are fulfilled in that area (outer rim indicates great; inner circle, not so great). Finally, connect the dots! This will show you where you are lopsided in your life, and also where you could develop new relationships or dig deeper with old ones.

For me, spirituality is a piece of my pie that has always tended to be unfulfilled. That changed (very recently!) when I began working with a mediumship development circle and sparking conversations with friends who had strong spiritual practices that I admired.

You could change out any of the segments as well to fit what you are looking to cultivate more of in your life and network.

2. Have a purpose.

Decide on what topics you would like more community around and the level of involvement you’re hoping to both give and receive. Do you want a buddy to hit a virtual yoga class with? Are you hoping for a monthly zoom date to dive into systemic racism and what you can do to help? Maybe you would like text support and accountability as you build a meditation practice? Develop a plan for the topics you’d like to get deeper into and the amount of engagement you can realistically provide so that when you meet someone you resonate with, you already have an invitation in mind.

3. Put yourself out there.

I complained about not having a community and the Seattle Freeze for a long time before I realized that I was perpetuating it myself. I know you probably already know this, but it’s true: to have a community you must be IN community. I’m naturally introverted, but everything changed for me once I started showing up to events, engaging in small talk, and following up on coffee dates or phone calls.

If the thought of going to an event by yourself makes you break out in a cold sweat (been there), then this is the perfect time to start thinking about the community we can cultivate online… because it’s kinda our only option right now. It’s way less creepy to follow people we want to get to know on social media these days, and I love when random people reach out to me to spark a conversation about a shared interest (as long as they are not trying to secretly sell me something!).

There are also SO many virtual communities out there right now that I can guarantee you’ll be able to find one with a mission and members that you resonate with. Even though I tend to be a fly on the wall in online groups, they have sparked and facilitated some very deep connections with people I’ve never met IRL!

4. Let your intuition guide you.

When we begin to claim our interests and create connections, some interesting things can come up. We might run into people who share our interests, but who we don’t actually resonate with. We might join groups that seem right up our alley until we get a little deeper and realize that we don’t share the same values. We might become part of a community where nothing is glaringly wrong, but we always leave feeling a little depleted.

Whatever you encounter as you search for your people, listen to the feelings in your body as you navigate these interactions. Embracing the understanding that we are not for everyone and everyone is not for us is essential in finding a community where we can fully be ourselves.

5. Create your own community.

If you continue to find that nothing feels quite “right,” maybe it’s time to start your own! Here are a few ideas:

  • Start a weekly (or monthly!) newsletter about your favorite things. It could be the books you’re reading, the recipes you’re making, or the most picturesque walking routes around where you live.
  • Create an Instagram account dedicated to one of your interests. You could fill this with your favorite work from home hacks, your new macrame projects, or all the outfits you’ve come up with during quarantine.
  • Set up a monthly zoom chat to have the conversations that are on your heart. Whether it’s talking about body neutrality, how to navigate grief, or maybe just holding space for people to share their roses & thorns—there will be people out there who are so ready to participate in these conversations.
  • Build a Facebook or Mighty Networks group to gather people around a collective passion. Maybe you share your favorite rockhounding spots and the treasures you’ve found, or rally support and ideas for a local cause.

The most important thing to do with any of the above endeavors is to invite people in to engage with you, and make sure you’re engaging with them too! Sign up for newsletters on the topics you love, follow accounts that make you smile, and drop in on virtual events you vibe with. Community is circular, and not mutually exclusive. The more communities you are exposed to, the stronger your own will be.

What kind of community will you create or become part of? You can find a few of our favorites on our Community Partner page and be the first to find out about our virtual community launch by providing your info here.


Written by Hannah Exner, Founder of Three Moon Collective. Reach her via email at hello@threemooncollective.com

How Can We Practice Virtual Inclusion?

Hi. I hope this finds you well. ❥

In this brave new world we find ourselves in, we’ve been able to witness right in front of our eyes just how quickly it’s possible to move even more of our lives online. (Wait, weren’t we just talking about digital detoxing?) But, here we are.

For many of us in the wellness world, this has meant shifting almost overnight into hosting our classes and clients remotely, either for the first time or just a lot more often than before.

This has definitely not been without its challenges, but I see you all out there figuring it out, and I really admire it. It’s been truly inspiring to see the innovation that’s come out of all this, from the virtual meditations and dance parties popping up all over the place like the spring crocuses outside to Dolly Parton reading bedtime stories online, making one thing very clear — the desire to maintain connections, show up for and be held by community, and hold space for each other is so real, and thank goodness, because it’s so needed at this time. If there’s anything social distancing has taught us, it’s just how much we need each other.

In between all of our efforts to become intimately acquainted with video platforms and transform our living rooms into makeshift studios, one question that’s maybe been harder to answer is, how do we do this inclusively?

Of course, virtual sessions are nothing new, but their ubiquity is, and there are still not many guidelines on bringing inclusion to this realm. Knowing that, Hannah and I wanted to put this out there as a way to start a conversation on what it means to be inclusive in the virtual space. We’ll offer a few ideas below and would love to hear yours as well.

Inclusive Considerations for the Virtual Space

Mobile friendliness: Not everyone has a computer, but more and more people do have phones. Making virtual offerings mobile-friendly is one way to help to make them more accessible.

Time friendliness: For people who are busy working and taking care of their households, or who don’t have wifi always accessible, the timing of a class may be the only thing holding them back. If you can offer them a recording of a class, they can have the option of attending at their convenience.

Tech friendliness: How can you accommodate folks who might be new to the tool or platform you’re using? Some ideas are including usage instructions to help people navigate tools that may be new to them, inviting people to ask questions, and taking time to give brief virtual tours/tutorials at the beginning of sessions (“here’s where to find the chat box”).

Financial friendliness: With so many people unemployed and underemployed at the moment, it’s an especially worthwhile time to ask, is there financial accessibility to my offerings? Some ways of doing this are making some offerings donation-based or sliding scale, if it’s feasible for you while still meeting your needs. If you don’t feel able to do this for all offerings, you might consider shifting to this structure for one to see how it goes. And don’t forget, there are other forms of energetic exchange outside of money! For example, for those who elect to attend a donation-based class for free, you might ask them to “pay” by spreading the word to friends. If you’re able, you might also consider donating a % of proceeds to an organization offering Covid-19 relief.

One Day at a Time…

As we move through this, let’s acknowledge that each and every one of us has essentially been thrown into a new and different realm where maintaining our personal connections and our livelihoods has to happen in virtual reality. This is unprecedented, so wherever you find yourself in this process and however you might be feeling about it is completely valid. We’re here to listen if you need space to talk through your challenges, and we welcome your ideas for ways we can continue to navigate virtual reality in ways that feel welcoming to all. Please send them to emily@threemooncollective.com.

*Virtual hug.*

How To Help: A COVID-19 Guide

There are a myriad of detailed lists and round-up’s of where to donate and how to help, below are some of our favorite local outlets and the resources we’ve seen mentioned across the board:

Local Outlets

  • The South Seattle Emerald is always a great resource for local news and information, but their recent COVID-19 coverage and how it’s impacted our communities has been especially enlightening.
  • Crosscut is another insightful local publication, and I appreciated their recent piece on how social distancing is impacting people living with addiction and mental illness, and the groups they depend on.
  • One of my favorite daily newsletters is The Evergrey which has been putting together content that is informative, uplifting, and centering the experiences of marginalized communities.

How To Help

If you possess financial resources:

If you possess other resources:

Have something to add to this list? Send an email to hello@threemooncollective.com

Virtual Wellness Offerings For The Times

Below are a selection of virtual offerings from our Collective members, designed to support the community during this difficult and ever-evolving period of time. Most of our providers can adapt their work to be offered virtually, so feel free to browse the Collective for the support you’re looking for if you can’t find it below.

Movement

  • Virtual 1-1 pilates sessions with Tiffany Lodes. Explore her services here and book by sending her an email (discounts available for venmo payments)
  • Virtual yoga sessions with Brenda Umana. Explore her offerings and book here, sessions start at $35/hr.

Mindfulness

  • Intro to Meditation in 8-weeks with Brenda Umana. This has been the curriculum she uses with her in-person one-on-one clients, and she’s offering it exclusively online now. Prices are reasonable with 3 different tiers, explore them here.

Guidance

  • Free 45-minute Mom’s Strategy Video/Call sessions with Aga Lawrynowicz to support mothers and caregivers with some useful tools and ideas to get through these uncertain times. Schedule a session here.
  • Virtual Astrology readings with Trista Dedmon. Learn about the different types of readings she offers and book with her here (use promo code TMC30 to get 30% off your reading!).
  • Akashic Record reading with Hannah Exner. Learn about the Akashic Records here, and book a reading by sending her an email. $30 for a 30 minute reading (3-5 questions), free for hourly workers and those in the service industry.

Nourishment

  • Holistic Nutrition Coaching ($60/hr) or Menu Planning ($45/week) via Zoom or phone call with Chelsea Fechtner. Book a free 30-minute clarity call here.

Energy 

  • Heart-Centered Hypnotherapy (One-on-One) with Emily Wittenhagen. A heart-centered hypnotherapy session is meant to help you explore your subconscious — where 90% of our emotions, long-term memories, beliefs, habits, patterns, and intuitions reside — helping to reshape, rewrite, and reframe emotions, beliefs, and patterns to serve yourself in kinder and healthier ways.  (60-90 minutes by video chat.) Suggested donation = $40.
  • Intuitive Coaching or Reiki Energy Sessions with Maria Muñoz. Tune inward for guidance, with support of energy medicine tools and techniques. 60 minutes by phone/video $60 with coupon code: COMMUNITY – Discounted rate through April 3, 2020.
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5 of the Most Magical Winter Wellness Retreats

I don’t know about you, but around this time of the year I start craving an escape. Thankfully we don’t have to go far to reset or renew. Below are some wonderful opportunities to stave off the winter blues and create connection outside of our homes at least once this season.

Jan 23 – 26 | Realistic Ritual Retreat

During this weekend away at Gig Harbor with Hannah, Carmen, & Monica, you will gift yourself a deeply holistic experience, focusing on Self-care, Self-love, well-being, and bringing realistic ritual into your everyday. Surrounded by the beauty of the Pacific Northwest, you’ll honor what our bodies crave this time of year through daily yoga & meditation, workshops, connection circles & intention setting, ritual spa baths, private reiki, and delicious plant powered meals.⁠

Jan 24 – 26 | Lunar Living Live // Urban Retreat

This is the first of four retreats by Chelsea of Luna Rasa Yoga which combines all the in-person depth, connection, and restoration of a retreat, with the comfort + accessibility of sleeping in your own bed each night. You’ll begin the retreat series in sync with the beginning of the lunar month, at the New Moon. This phase is dark and receptive, a perfect time for new beginnings. Taking your cues from nature, this weekend is all about slowing down, connecting to your inner stillness, and dreaming up a vision for the coming cycle. 

Jan 31 – Feb 2 | Nourished Soul Retreat

Nourished Soul is a curated retreat on the Olympic Peninsula created by Jen Minnich, Lisa Lunsford, and Jennifer Whitaker for YOU to embrace your unique gifts and awaken to your greatest potential. It is all about stepping into your power at a level that feels appropriate and expansive for you. Through guided meditations, energy workshops, contemplative exercises, private coaching, and healing sessions – this retreat is all about empowering YOUR personal journey.

Feb 22 | Energy Activation Day Retreat

This day long retreat with Three Moon Collective and Danielle Kurtz is a self initiation of knowing yourself as an energetic being and experiencing your very own unique frequency & vibration. By taking a single day to up-level and fine tune our personal frequencies, we can have a positive impact on our own lived experience, as well as everyone around us.  Think of this retreat as the starting place for the “choose your own adventure” path that is energy healing.

And here’s a tropical treat to look forward to…

The Bali ImmersionJul 1 – 12 | The Bali Immersion

Awaken & Flow is a 100-hour foundational immersion for The Craft of Teaching Yoga. You’ll study yoga philosophy, history, sequencing, anatomy, chakras, and so much more. This Bali experience can serve as the first half of your 200-hour yoga teacher training certification with The Craft. Alternatively, this immersion offers 100 hours of continuing education credits if you are already certified. Not interested in teaching? No problem. Fascinated practitioners are welcome to join as well. Here, you are bound to unfold, unwind, nourish, explore and expand.

Want to be the first to learn about upcoming retreats and other local wellness events? Subscribe to our newsletter using this link to get a curated list delivered to your inbox every Monday morning.


Written by Hannah Exner, founder of Three Moon Collective. Hannah occupies the space between wellness seeker & provider, and founded her company to help people find the practices & providers they resonate with. 

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Review: Yin Yoga, Reiki, & Aromatherapy

As I breathed into the second minute of the twist, I felt the stress of the day slowly melt away. The air rushing through my nostrils carried the scent of the essential oils we rubbed on our hands and feet at the beginning of our practice. The dimmed lights and the blankets only added to the aura of comfort that filled the room.

Earlier in the day, I had agreed to help my sister move into a new apartment. Hours of working around broken elevators, lifting dressers into moving trucks, and finagling couches through doorways left me drained. A small part of me regretted I had signed up to do yoga that night. I just wanted to go to sleep.

But when I passed the curtain and up the stairs to the yoga studio, I knew I was in the right place. After leaving my belongings in a cubby, I sat down on a perfectly positioned yoga mat near the front of the room. The owner of the mat politely informed me that I was supposed to get my own mat from the stack at the side of the room. Whoops! After a short laugh, I got myself together and waited for the class to begin.

The room was calm yet energized as Danielle Kurtz led us through a series of relaxing asanas. Yin yoga is a peaceful practice where poses are held for three to five minutes each. You enter a meditative state as your body begins to unwind.

Occasionally, Danielle or Hannah would come by and place their hands on us, transferring healing energy as we relaxed just a little more.

Finally, Danielle turned down the lights, and we entered a ten-minute Shavasana. Flirting with the edge of sleep, I was completely relaxed, breathing in the energy around me.

Somewhat reluctantly, I sat up for the final seconds of our practice. After a collective Namaste, I thanked Danielle and walked back down the stairs to the Seattle night. Thoughts of moving couches, beds, and dressers were far from my mind. I was entirely at peace.

Yin Yoga, Reiki, & Aromatherapy is hosted on a monthly basis at We Yoga Co. Check out upcoming dates and buy tickets here.


Michael Bjorn Huseby is a freelance writer specializing in health, wellness, and travel. He loves practicing yoga, writing music, and attempting to speak foreign languages. If you want to learn more, visit bjorn2write.com

Manizales

Mindfulness in Manizales, Colombia

Lessons Learned From Attempted Robberies, Graduation Parties, and Letting Go of Love 

If you’re anything like me, staying mindful sounds easy when you read it in a book. Of course you’ll slow down and take a deep breath when faced with a challenge. What else would you do? 

Well, the “what else” commonly involves panicking, ruminating, and watching your mind get out of control. When things get tough, staying mindful can be challenging. 

I’ve faced many such challenges over the last eight months. After selling all my furniture, quitting my job, and stuffing my life into a backpack, I’ve been living in Latin America since March. Most of my time has been in my new adopted home of Manizales, Colombia. 

In this article, I’ll bring you into a few of my more unusual Colombian experiences. I faced difficulties, but each hurdle came with a valuable lesson. 

March 15, 2019: The Colombian Graduation Party

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My very first Colombian Graduation

On my second full day in Colombia, I found myself at a graphic design student’s graduation. Specifically, I was one of three guests at the ceremony. Even more specifically, I was seated directly between the other two guests: the girl’s divorced parents. 

I was rather nervous. Sweating with impressive consistency, I attempted to make conversation. Back in March, my Spanish was pretty lackluster. Filled with anxiety, I didn’t know what to do. 

But then, all of a sudden, I realized everything was going to be ok. What’s the worst thing that could happen? I took a deep breath, and I felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I got my sweating under control (though that may have been because someone finally opened the doors to the auditorium…it was quite hot). 

Often, we find ourselves in situations where we’re afraid of how we’ll appear to other people. One way to calm ourselves down is to realize everyone else is human, just like us. They’re unlikely to judge us, condemn us, or even notice if we’ve made a mistake. By taking a step back and realizing it’s all going to be ok, it usually is. 

July 12, 2019: The Broken Computer 

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My Spanish replacement computer

After spending a couple of weeks visiting family in the United States, I was back in Colombia. During my time back home, I had bought a new laptop. I was very pleased with this laptop—that is, until it broke on my third day back. 

I’m a writer. That’s how I make my money. No writing, no income. Unfortunately, I now had no way to put words on the page. My initial reaction was to spend a few hours running around like a chicken with its head cut off. 

What am I going to do? How could the computer break so soon? Why is this happening to me? 

I was planning on being in South America for another four months, so this was quite the problem. I created nightmare scenarios about how clients would fire me and how I wouldn’t get a new computer quickly enough. 

You know what happened? I walked back into my apartment and realized there was a desktop computer I could use. It was sitting right there. I had even used it before. How could I forget? 

When we’re in a state of panic, we’re often blind to obvious solutions. We spend so much time worrying about the problem that we can’t find the easy fix, even when it’s sitting right in front of us. 

Since then, I bought a $200 laptop that I use when I travel. Neither the apartment’s desktop nor my new laptop is an impressive machine. Plus, both computers have Spanish keyboards (it took me days to find the apostrophe key). Nevertheless, the world kept turning. I kept writing, and now I have a story. 

It’s natural to let the mind race when you encounter a challenge, but try to take a moment and calmly evaluate the situation. It will all work out eventually. It always does. 

July 31, 2019: The Attempted Robbery 

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The scene of the crime

I was on my way back from a concert when I felt the man jump on my back. Honestly, I wasn’t surprised. I was told never to walk by the soccer stadium after a match, but I thought I could make it home. 

Walking through a red sea of Cali supporters, I felt uneasy. Eventually, my fears came true. While one man was one my back, another stuck his hand down my pocket. My phone pocket. Bad news. 

I managed to push them both off me and directed a stern “No!” at them. It was the best warning I could muster. I promptly speed-walked away until I found some policemen to use as cover. After about a minute, I continued my power-walking back to my apartment. Luckily, the prospective thieves came away emptyhanded. 

When I got back to my apartment, I reflected. I wasn’t angry at all. Why wasn’t I upset? It was strange. 

After a few minutes, I started to feel compassion for the attempted robbers. Perhaps they needed money to feed their families. Maybe they wanted to look cool in front of their friends. Regardless of the reason, I realized they wouldn’t have tried to steal from me if they were happy and secure. 

When others try to do us harm, it’s usually because they’re in a bad place. Instead of vilifying them, try to see things from their perspective. When you try to understand their side of the story, you realize they aren’t terrible people. They’re trying their best, just like you and me. 

Today: Saying Goodbye 

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The country that stole my heart

As I write this in November, I can’t help but look back on these experiences with warm nostalgia. My time in Colombia has taught me more than my formal education ever did. After months of meeting new people, speaking Spanish, and attending yoga classes where I was the only man, I’ve grown to love this country. 

For a variety of reasons, I’m leaving Colombia in a week. As a side note, none of the reasons have to do with Colombia itself—this country is filled with magic and warmth. 

While I’m excited for the next chapter in my life, a big part of me will miss this place. The small buses that cost $0.70 and don’t have actual stops. The lush green hills that surround the city. The amazing friends I’ll remember forever. 

But this is all part of the process. If we cling to the things we love without ever moving on, we’ll never be happy. All good things must come to an end. 

And so, at this very moment, Colombia is teaching me my last lesson. With everything being impermanent, we must be grateful for every moment. Gaze out your window. Smell the flowers. Smile at a stranger. I’ll always look back at this experience with a warm glow of love. Gracias, Colombia. Te quiero. 


Michael Bjorn Huseby is a freelance writer specializing in health, wellness, and travel. He loves practicing yoga, writing music, and attempting to speak foreign languages. If you want to learn more, visit bjorn2write.com

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The Body Knows

Our #1 emotional intelligence rule: The body knows. 

In a culture that loves to explain everything, we forget to feel our bodies. When we think about emotional intelligence, we think about strategies to have effective conversations, we think about becoming aware of our patterns, we think about defining our needs. The truth, none of this is possible if we don’t listen to and FEEL THE BOD.

How your body feel lets you know if your needs are met. How you react to your bodies needs creates your emotional patterns. And, if your body isn’t relaxed, you can kiss that effective conversation.

Before developing great emotional strategies, you need to build a relationship with your body. What does it need? What does it crave? How can you take care of it? 

When that person asks if you want to do that thing, does your body say “heck yes!” or “heck no!” How do you know? 

Here is our favorite tool for listening to your body, it’s called Clench/Unclench. 

Clench/Unclench

Step 1) 

Ask yourself a question. I.e. Do I want to eat ice cream right now?

Step 2) 

Notice your bodies’ response. Does it clench? Or, does it unclench? Unclenching is a sign to go for that thing, it’s a sign that your body wants it. Your body relaxing around that thing is a deep, embodied yes. Clenching, on the other hand, is a sign that your body does not want that thing. It’s a pushing away, a closing, an embodied no. 

Step 3) 

Follow your bodies’ yes. Listen for the unclench and follow it for one whole day. What do you end up doing? How do you feel? How is it different from your normal day?

I bet you’re thinking, if I always follow my unclench, I’m going to be a lazy hedonist who never does anything productive. You’d be surprised. Following the unclench often leads people to do their laundry, go for a walk, and eat green stuff. It might also lead to a cookie or a nap. 

Consider this article encouragement for you to follow your unclench and see what happens. At the very least, you’ll start to get acquainted with… YOUR BOD!


Mieka Briejer is the founder of Frankly EQ; brain based emotional education which gives you the knowledge, tools, and hands-on practice you need to become an emotional genius. Got questions for Mieka? Reach out to her here.